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Heather McHale Age: 53 of Markham, Ontario
submitted by her husband, Rick McHale

Heather was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in March of 1998. Her initial diagnosis was not promising. The tumours had metastasized and were inoperable. Her initial chemotherapy treatment was palliative. Her treatment was further complicated by a severe allergic reaction to Taxol, the drug of choice for treating ovarian cancer. Her battle with cancer was a story of determination, positive attitude and strength. She handled the challenge in a manner that gave those around her strength and hope no matter what the challenge. She received exceptional treatment from both Sunnybrook and Scarborough Centenary Hospitals, but in particular from incredible medical personnel who could never do enough and were always available. She successfully battled the disease for 2 and 1/2 years never letting it reduce her joy of living and life.

Highlights:
Her motto "Living Life to the Fullest is the Best Revenge"
"Making it" for her son’s wedding
The first of three golf tournaments organized by her daughter
Her smile and laugh
Her "will do" attitude
The special care of Ursula and Diane
Her comment at the end to a home care Dr. who was listing the various treatments available and asking if she had had them, that, "please let her know if there was something else I should be trying because I am giving away my jewellery!"
The care and attention of friends and strangers

Lowlights:
CAT scans, blood results and CA125 readings.
Anaphylactic shock
Wishing the wedding was sooner
Seeing the pain in your children’s eyes
Not seeing her daughter married or her first grandchild

Current Status:
Deceased, August 11, 2000